It’s a really special kind of fucked up feeling to see the man that— -exposed me and other women to STIs without our informed consent, -single-handedly destroyed my good standing in a community that I poured my soul into, -exploited (w/o consent) at least one of his partners, -plus a litany of other lies and betrayals to his other partners and his polycule— be celebrated on a mutual’s social media for his fuckin’ rope skills.