I dont text someone bf or someone husband. If i know someone is in relationship, if i need to reach out, it means it is really important. Important here means work related, not personal. I really respects the boundaries, even when i am someone wife too. I only text others for very important thing. Setakat tanya how was your day, small talk memang i will not do that. If nak sembang, we can sembang in public supaya tiada yg suspicious. I have a lot kdrama ongoing so tak payah nak add one okay? 🫣