Just remember that the people being mean in your comments are probably the ones who mistreat their relatives as well and it’s more about them justifying that, than actually reflecting on your situation. Sorry you weren’t cared for while sick/on Christmas Eve - also, you should be included if they really want you to join in. I’m not vegan but I have Arfid and meat really freaks me out and for some reason it’s the hill other people wanna die on😂