(1) To be abundantly clear & blunt, I can understand a man pushing 30 and even to some degree going into 40s looking at a 21 year old woman and finding her attractive. HOWEVER, at the same time, I can’t reconcile a man pushing 30 and most def pushing 40s pursuing a physical or romantic relationship with a young woman who is 18, even 21. Science tells us brains are not even fully developed until 25-26 & if you’re maturing naturally & are healthy; an 18-21 woman shouldn’t connect w/ you like that.