‘3 months is the longest someone can hide their mask’…but there were prob signs the whole time-they just didn’t register until later. EXAMPLE: end of month 1: they’re negging & pressuring u. Month 2: they display moments of instability & insecurity. Month 3, they show they can’t handle conflict w grace, understanding, or maturity-they r defensive & manipulative. The ‘small things’ snowball…& nothing ever feels resolved. Dont be scared to drop the wrong person early-better is waiting for u!