Let's change the culture and "pandemic" of labeling Motherhood and the most difficult thing on earth. Before I became a mother, I was told to forget fun, forget sleep, etc lots of dreadful advice. One beautiful thing I've found is that it truly gets easier. You lose your old self but gain a much kinder, sensitive, stronger, loving version of yourself (the list goes on and on). I choose to believe that if you focus on the good, only positive things happen. Motherhood is beautiful!