1 way to increase your “lover energy” slow down . The lover is not in a rush or running late there is beauty and grace when things take their time . Ever notice how food taste so much better when it’s slow cooked . How the dance moves are better when you take your time and learn to accent . How the progress from a skill shows up over time . Or the steady pace of poetry . Even the gossip Is a little juicer when it unfoldSlow down there’s nothing sexy about being in a rush or instant gratification