I am on one year of completely cutting my mom off. It has been bittersweet and I miss her but she is not a safe person. She is emotionally immature and denies traumatic experiences she thought I made up. I could not take the homophobia or the transphobia. She continually pulled me into clear animal rights violations. I don’t miss the things she would say about my body or my mind. She blamed everything else instead of taking any accountability. I could not be her scapegoat anymore.