I’m Black & Queer Honor my pronouns My gender expression is fluid Don’t assume I have a husband Being Queer isn’t a “lifestyle” Just b/c I identify as a Queer, Black woman doesn’t mean that i identify as a lesbian Just because I have been married to a man doesn’t mean that I identify as Bi-sexual Just b/c my gender expression gives feminine doesn’t mean that I am Just b/c my gender expression gives androgynous doesn’t mean that I am You can’t be in my life if your spouse is homophobic