Just get an odyssey or a sienna… it looks like you’re trying to avoid a van, but odyssey is way more suited for kid/mom life. Thousands of cup holders, places to put stuff, seats fold down so you can haul stuff easily, sliding doors close without you having to get out of the car to close them, and they last forever. Our 2012 has 230k miles and all we’ve had to do is change the oil/brakes and replace the timing belt for the life of the van. Storage capacity is way higher