So my husband is now a stay at home dad. He drives bus as a sub for the local school district but he is first and foremost the primary homeschooling parent to our 3 kids. Prior to ‘22 (when I graduated with my 4 year) he was the primary breadwinner and busted his ass in shit factories as a process engineer and was gone all the time. Him being the primary parent is all our 5 year old son knows. So when I told our 5 year old that one day he’d have to get a job and pay bills he promptly 1/2

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3 分鐘內	Frumpy Forest Goblin frumpy_forestgoblin	Told me “no I will not. I am not a mommy. I won’t be a mommy. I’m a boy. I will be a daddy and I will take care of my babies” 😂 it’s amazing how an environment can override generations of cultural conditioning.
4 小時內	🍉 Brenda 🍉 whosays1977	I hope more girls/young women learn that they don't need to couple up/get married/have children w/males, especially due to societal norms/pressure since that's more likely to lead to domestic violence situations/divorce/infidelity/generational trauma/possibly unwanted children. While boys/young men learn the thinking/behavior spectrum towards females to earn the privilege of being chosen. This means parents understand they're not entitled to grands just because they decided to have kids. 🤷🏼‍♀️
4 小時內	Carl Setzer carlsetzer	I've airways been the primary care giver for my son, and deeply value that.
5 小時內	mcmircle	We both worked. We had working lives before we met. I was the higher earner. When we adopted our son we were tag teaming. DH brought our son to work in an infant carrier sometimes. I was practicing law from home. We totally shared everything. My experience was not typical, but we did our best.
7 小時內	Franziska Mrak mrakfranziska	My father stayed at home when our little brother was 4 because his job made him an offer to stay at home for 60% of his normal paycheck till he reached the minimum age for pension. He is at home since 14 years now.
8 小時內	Julia Moore juliasearlmoore	My mom worked most of my life. Both my parents did. I had a very nice lady who took care of my while they did so. The first time I went to a friends house and met her stay at home mom, I asked my friend if her mom was sick and that’s why she couldn’t work.
9 小時內	Lux Grey lux_is_ok	All the patriarchal toxic masculinity BS in the comments is disgusting and I’m seeing a lot of these comments coming from women! It isn’t mooching if someone is a stay at home parent. The people attacking his masculinity are the same people who run to the comments saying “fatherless behavior.” Do better!
9 小時內	Craig Weier cweier2012	Why home schooling?
10 小時內	jesseli_222	Anyone saying stay at home parents are lazy and do nothing has clearly never been a full time caregiver. Being a stay at home parent is hard, I have done both and going into work is easier than being home with kids 24/7-365.
10 小時內	Robin Layman laym.an985	While I wholeheartedly agree that fathers need to be an active part of raising their children I live in the real world where people need two jobs to pay the bills. My husband Quitting his job leaving me to do all the heavy lifting alone is what ultimately ended my marriage. However I am glad it’s working for so many.