But too often, women end up staying with men who: • Aren’t emotionally available • Don’t commit • Only give breadcrumbs of effort Why? Because we allow this behaviour because we think they’ll change for us. Spoiler: They usually don’t.

Expecting him to just 100% know right from the start without actually getting to know you and whether he can spend the rest of his life with you is absolutely absurd. Someone can recognize your value but also need to find out how compatible he is with you through experiences that are practically inherent to time. Not allowing him that time is setting both of you up for total failure. It turns out people don’t have crystal balls or psychic powers to live in the reality you’re trying to create.

I like the ambition of your posts but I feel like I’m getting dogged for no reason. A woman would do the same but that’s pretty inherent by the post. Can we normalize not blasting people for no reason cuz we’re upset?

Facts

True. Also > A woman who recognizes your value will see it from the start. She won’t need months—or years—to figure out if you’re ‘the one.’ She’ll know. The right woman will act like it too. > It’s good that women are telling this to themselves. What is needed is more men telling that to themselves as well!