My parents love talking sh#t about me and my husband to my kids when we're not around. I don't know if they want our kids to tell us but they would. They are confused and bothered by it. I use it as a teaching moment for them and tell them not all things adults do are good. Only take what they can help them grow as a good person. I don't know if they want my kids to do anything about it but I wish they'd stop doing that. This is an unnecessary burden and mental load the kids don't need (1)