Through It” with my husband. At the end of the film (spoiler: it has a sad ending), tears were running down his cheeks. It was in a dark theater; we’d been together for years (did I just date myself?), and there was no one to impress. He was having a sincere moment. There were other moments like that. I started listing them here, and then I decided I didn’t want to go down that road. Because it still triggers me, all these years later, to dredge up those happy memories and put them down