It's always women need to pick better and not "men need to stop using fake personas to lure women into letting their guard down" These dudes real personalities are so repulsive (and they know it) so they have to lie and be something they aren't to basically trap these women. Like no sir if you were a lazy, cheating inattentive, ass hole from the beginning I wouldn't have fallen in love with you. But you waited until you knocked me up to show it, so I guess I'm the stupid one.

My question is why do they tell women to pick better men and then whine about being incels and the male loneliness epidemic. Sorry, we followed the instructions and picked better, tf more do you want???

If you don't have to why are you?