What about the dudes like me who done the exact same thing because they feel the same way as yall? Im legit not hating here, I’m just saying I’ve checked out as well because the women (not saying yall, not saying OP) completely killed my desire to even try to be in a relationship. Problem isn’t men or women. It’s just shitty people in general. Most people are fuckin lame, including myself, and I got my own problems so I’m not gonna sit here and act like I’m better either.