I'm so tired of people trying to make me feel like I'm a bad person/a bad mom for not wanting or letting my daughter to stay overnight with my ex. It hurts even more when that judgement comes from those who were supposed to be my friend. Like, u knew how toxic my ex was and yet u wanted me to let him have her for the night? Na-ah. What, just because they share DNA automatically make him a dad when he didn't give a sh*t before? Would U let your children into a burning building? I don't think so.