UPDATE: i was dating somebody for 3 months 😂 he needed a mental break….. yall here i am December 17th. let me fill yall in a bit.. this happened December 9th starting the morning.. my birthday was December 7th.. the day of my birthday i caught myself saying “if you don’t want to be with me for my birthday you don’t have too.” i kinda felt like it was forced.. yet, i had one of the best birthdays! 🎉 fast forward ⏩ December 9th he woke up at my house, and his mood was off. i got up to cook.