A lot of people are not being patient or kind with one another and patience/kindness is the leading attributes of the definition of LOVE. “Love is patient and it is kind” 1 Cor. 13:4 Some people say, “the word doesn’t tell me to be nice” but it does define us to love as all the laws hang on loving YAH and loving your neighbor also telling us that “Love is patient and KIND” If you are not patient with others in their process, you will then proceed to be unkind. John 13:34-35, 1 Cor. 13:1