What are some boundaries you made with family members that they didn’t respect. When I had my son, I told a specific family member that I wanted to exclusively breastfeed and less than 2 hours after birth, I woke up to this family member giving my son a formula bottle because they “thought he would starve because I was sleeping.” I had just given birth. I was never able to breastfeed my son after that. Because of this, my next baby will be greeted by their father and me, no other family.