before she finally left him. He'd written in it that she had to satisfy his needs at least once a week, no matter how she was feeling emotionally. Sexual abuse, in black and white, with his name on it (yes, literally—Google docs show who makes the edits). This is the Power and Control Wheel, which shows patterns of abuse in domestic violence. The inside of the wheel describes subtle, ongoing behaviors, while the outer wheel represents physical and sexual violence.