A great example of the old "remember to turn the exam over" thing. Reading the "friendly advice" in the first partwound me up, the second part soothed my lonely soul and reminded me of something a therapist said - much has to go right for love to happen but it can and it does, whether you're looking or not, whether you want it or not.

“Love yourself completely and then you’ll find love” pissed me off. Honey? You hate yourself and are a hot mess yet are in a relationship… so how does that work?