A piece of advice to men and women in current breaks ups! 2. Never give that person an edge over you! An ex simply knowing that you are hurting and that you are devastated without them, gives your ex a sense of satisfaction that any point in time, when he choses to return, is you will take them back. So posting anything about your relationship with them is an affirmation that they have you in their grasp. Post that you are going by your day without them, this will make them wonder..