Too bad you have met so many imature males that gave you a wrong impression of how a true man should be. I guess a winey little girl would attract either a false immature kid in a body of a mature male or a playboy to fool her with his soft skills to use her. A man needs a woman to be his partner in life and a school for bis future generations so that they both accomplish their mission on life and end up, In Shaa’ Allaah ﷻ, in Jannah. The K-Drama and romantic sort of love spoilsl relationships.