We made an agreement (between us, takde libatkan court) to allow ex dtg rumah tengok anak 4 kali seminggu. Up to him nak atur mcm mana, but 4 times. Sometimes less sbb anak tidur time dia nak dtg so he won't come la kan. Past few weeks dia ada mention nak bawak anak balik rumah dia (which I mati mati will never allow - reason nnt I bgtahu). But he play dumb and still hint nak bawak anak balik.