Y’all gotta stop thinking that an upgrade from you means ONLY looks. She may be more emotionally stable than you, she may know how to communicate better than you, she may know how to take care of herself and her man and not just financially.  Hell, she may be actively working on her toxic traits by going to therapy. Y’all on these apps laughing and taking screenshots about who you think you look better than; while all along your ex is happy, healthy, and at peace. 🙄