If you are heartbroken about not getting a gift or a stocking from your partner this Christmas (or Hannuka) which is the most minimal effort they could possibly even make this holiday, please think about my cousin and her husband, because that is the kind of relationship we should all aspire and hope to build with someone who is supportive, thoughtful and present, which may be the best gift of all. I hope y'all have a better holiday next year, either single, or in a better relationship dynamic!