This post going around about a mom upset about her son in a picture with his dad, stepmom and siblings, all have on matching PJs except for her son. As a stepmom, it’s a hard situation. Although my husband’s BM would have a fit that we’re matching(because, as she always says, I’m not her mother). I would either get my stepchild, a matching set(this is highly likely)or none of us will be matching . I would not allow my stepchild to feel like an outsider. StepParenting