What do you do when you’ve spent months on getting gifts for someone -a group of ppl For Christmas - was discussed before hand - and boom all of a sudden - and the main person says no thank you, we gave all we need and you need money so use for you. It’s not money it’s gifts that took two months of early shipping and all that to be told no. Keep them. Should I be hurt about this or is that me being my insecure self? I’m just trying to see if I’m feeling appropriate about the situation,