As someone diagnosed as a man asked aged adult and having my entire personhood uprooted as a result of it being soooo fuc.king obvious (as well as being bipolar), I’m not digging your phrasing of this question or some of the inputs you’re getting that you agree with. My temperament as a person is much different than another’s what you or they may see as giving into failure, may actually be a failing because my level of executive function is severely impaired. Another person with adhd (1/2)