Tell me why so many of you alleged adults are so incapable of communicating in your own relationships that, rather than actually speak up and TALK to the partner who upset you, you write 5-6 post length threads about all the ways they made you cry that day/week/hour/whatever Divorce them or stfu, honestly, because if you're THAT aware of all the ways they don't fucking care about you but you're still staying married - you're choosing to be miserable, and the posting is for sympathy attention