I never do holiday pics or cards but this year I sent a photo of me and my other partner to my mom and actually got a decent response from her. (To add a layer to the divorce story we're polyamorous and have been for about half of our marriage and have all nested together for about 5 years.) So it's fun that at least while one relationship is crumbling the other is thriving. Going through a divorce as a polyamorous person sometimes can be a wild experience. Gay Threads