A man is meant to lead, but a woman can't follow a man who doesn't know where he's going. A man who can't control himself around other women, can't lead. A man who doesn't carry his weight financially, can't lead. A man without vision for both of you, can't lead. A man who struggles to communicate, can't lead. A man who refuses to grow with you, can't lead. This is why it's so hard for a woman to trust a man to lead because too often men show her that she's better off doing it herself.