I noticed people who cant even afford a helper are those who act so selfishly in public. Makan tak reti nak buang sampah dan clear table sendiri. Harap pekerja R&R or kedai yg kemas. If it’s a proper restaurant, the least you can do is to make it easier for them to just pick your plates in one go. Mudahkan kerja mereka and cepatkan orang lain nak duduk. I grew up with helpers & bring my helper everywhere from warung to 5 star resorts and I have no problem doing simple chores like that.