Unpopular opinion: Using facets of your child’s identity to define yourself is weird of you and unhealthy for them. (Looking at you “autism moms” and “trans moms”….)
And before y’all tell me I don’t know what it’s like to be a parent to an autistic kid or a trans kid…I have both. I have no desire to label myself by co-opting the bravery of his life path.