"I'm depressed because I'm not making the income I deserve to travel exotic places, shop at boutiques or eat at the restaurants I like". When white people say that 👆🏽; people SYMPATHIZE with them. They aren't called spoiled, entitled or told to humble themselves. When we as black people echo the same sentiments, it's: "You're spoiled and entitled" "You just need to humble yourself and thank God you're alive". We as black women especially, are outright SHAMED for such feelings.