Girl, I feel ya! I tried to mend my relationship with my mother, while attempting to set healthy boundaries. However after she repeatedly and unapologetically trampled all over my boundaries, I decided enough was enough. I did check in with Holy Spirit before making my personal decision and got the go ahead before acting on it. I def do not believe it is wrong to leave toxic relationships (even family). You can forgive someone without trusting/having a relationship with them.