When I posted about "what's wrong with him? (He's 40, never been married, no kids, etc.) And stated my friend said, "oh you're about to find out. " people went for my NECK. But I recently DID find out what was wrong. He was emotionally unavailable just like every other one I've talked to with unhealed childhood trauma not willing to sell therapy or work on himself. I know this isn't every man, but damn. It's ALOT!