We need to lose the term "It's complicated." Either you want to be in a relationship or you don't. Either you have time for someone of you don't. But trying to put someone in the "dating queue" for later purpose is wrong. If you shoot your shot and they say no, then leave it at that. We need to normalize honesty again as it seems to be a fading trait. If you're not attracted to someone, just be honest. DatingThreads