Here’s a real hot take. Proposals shouldn’t be surprises or events. Couples should discuss marriage and come to an agreement to marry. If a ring is to be purchased, the person wearing the ring should select one to their taste and within the budget. And for good measure. Gender reveal parties are stupid

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38 分鐘內	Brian briandamnhowell	Couples should discuss how they want to go about the agreement and proposal. Some people, men and women, love the surprise proposal or big event. They should definitely be on the same page about marriage, though.
一小時內	Pamela Isley 5feet.of.fury	As someone who got married this year after a conversation and used an heirloom ring I alread had & threw a gender reveal for only my husband where I gave him blue candy in the privacy of our living room: yes. I hate surprises lol
3 小時內	icegirl1987_	I so much agree with you! And I think both wear a ring not just the woman.
4 小時內	Moss River Way mx.mossway	The actual act of the proposal can be a surprise as long as they understand how the recipient enjoys that thing but you should definitely talk about getting married and stuff BEFORE the proposal. Like getting engaged shouldn't be the surprise but how it's done.
5 小時內	Yeewen \| fluid artist & painter artbyyeewen	depends sometimes could be like a mini event with the baby shower regular small game party sess whatever the people like
5 小時內	Jamie ODell jamieodell__	Meh, let people do what they want 🤷‍♀️ doesn’t matter to me
5 小時內	Kathleen McMains sunshinegecko31718	My husband said he would propose to me On Christmas Eve and gave me a good reason for it, so when he proposed on my birthday (December 21,) I was suprised but just by how soon he did it
7 小時內	Erin Reed erinreed6797	I photograph quite a few proposals and I’m happy to say most of them, I’m there because they know they’re future fiancée wanted photos. Most of the time it sounds like they know the proposal is coming just not when or how. But personally, I would have hated a public proposal!
7 小時內	Rana Nixon raesheanix	Before we got engaged, I went with my now husband so he could get some idea of what style of ring I liked. It's a good thing we did because my taste is very different from his late wife's, and he would have gotten something more like hers (which would have been weird for me).🤷‍♀️
17 小時內	Loo looohooo2	Yes yes YES! My fiance and I looked at rings together, had multiple extended conversations about what marriage looks like for us, made sure we’re ijbthe same page. Only thing that was a surprise was when and where I proposed!