I heard that word every day from my wife, every time we spoke on the phone, she would say it and I would too! I ment it, she didn’t! She is a full blown narcissist! And all the negative things she did, I over looked, because I loved her! Besides I’m a generation older than her, where was I going? But she left a few years ago and I didn’t get any closer! None zero! She went with our daughter to live with a guy my age! Money talks!