Happy new year! So. I decided to do things differently, and I flirted with the cute French pilot at work. We exchanged numbers, I invited him over to play board games with my sister and her friend. He actually came over! while we waited for my sister and talked on my couch he got up suddenly, slightly panicked, and said he had to go. It was all new to him, he had never been openly into a guy, etc and he wasn’t ready. I totally understood so I texted my sister to let her know and walked him 1/2