Instead of overusing the term, here are some other words and phrases we can use to describe these behaviors more accurately: 1. Emotionally manipulative 2. Toxic tendencies 3. Self-absorbed 4. Unkind or dismissive behaviors 5. Controlling patterns 6. Emotionally unavailable 7. Lacking accountability 8. Power-seeking actions 9. Exploitative behaviors 10. Dysfunctional relationship dynamics