Have women been encouraging to men in general? Or is the message something like "men are unnecessary and obsolete pigs and I choose the bear"? Men are just kind of tired of hearing how shitty women think we are, and we've accepted that's how you all see us. There are places in the world though, where women don't act that way! I can only speak on my experiences in America. A lot of men are using rejection to fuel their motivation to find success elsewhere.