This why moms gets praised and get all the gifts come birthdays and Mother’s Day no shade to the dads but kids always remember who was present the most. Moms always on the front line. This why when my mom got sick I took care of her I never forgot how she took care of me.

One of the biggest reasons why I checked out of motherhood altogether. I grew up with my Daddy as the primary. I wouldn’t know the first thing about everything falling me on entirely.

The mental load of handling everything and sending out constant reminders for another adult to constantly forget, exhausting and will put us right into fight or flight.

They beg for kids but don’t participate in raising them. It’s crazy.

And if a mother turns to becoming a deadbeat and leaves her child, she can have charges brought against her for child abandonment but fathers never do. They literally can get women pregnant and never show up.

Tru facts

Yes mama, It's mentally draining and tiring too.