Relaxing and getting to know someone can also be considered a date. Money doesnt need to be used “on the first link.” That’s why a majority of men look at dating as exhausting

But most (not sayin u specifically) will "chill" w that fry cook from wendys just bc he is tall w dreads. This is coming from someone tall w dreads so im not hating im js. If u gon make rules they gotta be absolute. Or else they wont be respected. And most men notice the pattern of guys women find attractive not having the same rules applied and simply sayin "ill have what hes having"

I don’t understand dudes letting every woman they meet know where they live.

They could mean it as they want your poonaners or they could actually just want to chill with you without spending 80 dollars on an overpriced resturant.