ima say this with love in my heart and a smile on my face: you pushing 40 beloved! that shyt ain’t cute nomore, it’s concerning! Being out every week! hosting clubs for a flyer and 2 bottles. getting flown out to Miami for 2 days! dancing with a don Julio bottle on your head! neglecting that child to be on boats in turks! eating high fructose corn syrup for breakfast! work on that business! get you a gym/pilates membership! art/jazz shows! wineries and hikes! Investment properties! Book clubs.