It’s sad, cos from a trauma informed perspective people are allowed to take as long as they need. I didn’t choose all the things that happened to me & a huge chunk of it was the backwards mental health system & shelter in Switzerland. At the same time, migration to Australia had an age limit & I’m running out of time. 💔. Lost more than 10 years thanks to narc ex & if not for psychiatry effing up on top of it, it didn’t have to go this way…