It's a very strange flex. I have a female friend that says if she ever has another baby, she's going to make her partner change all the diapers. I thought it was funny at first, until she went into great detail about how she would never touch another dirty diaper again... and when I asked what she would do while her partner was at work? She didn't have an answer. Can we all just agree to not leave babies in soiled diapers? :(

I told my husband when we were discussing the idea of conceiving that if he didn’t help I would not hesitate to leave him and I made sure he knew I was not joking. Have these talks. Look at their face. Their gut reaction will tell you everything you need to know.

I once saw the perfect response to any man who brags about “never changing a diaper”: “I would be embarrassed to be that inept as a partner and a father”