No it’s not it should be about love ….if a man got his shit together already when you meet him anything that belongs to him you don’t get anything of unless he wants to give it to you ….women don’t bring anything to the relationship as far as business goes …because yall want providers so yall can keep yall money …..the man funds the relationship women outside of sex don’t really have anything to offer for a man to take care of a grown woman …